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Couples counselling in Madrid: when you still talk but no longer connect

Integrative therapeutic accompaniment for couples navigating conflict, emotional distance or trust crises. In-person in Madrid and online.

30 minutes · No commitment · Pick your time, confirmed instantly

Javier de Miguel — Couples counselling in Madrid

Before we go further, I'd like you both to see and hear me.

If you've both read this far, there's already something worth starting from.

You might recognise this

The same arguments on repeat

Different triggers, same pattern. You both end up frustrated, unheard, exhausted.

Emotional distance

Living together but feeling alone. The connection that used to be there has faded.

A crisis of trust

Something happened, or something has been building, and the foundation feels shaken.

Not knowing if it's worth trying

Somewhere between wanting to fix it and wondering if it's too late.

Conflict isn't the problem: it's what you do with it

Most couples arrive thinking the goal is to stop arguing. But the real work is learning to hear what's underneath the arguments. When both people feel genuinely listened to, the dynamic shifts on its own.

Javier de Miguel — Counselling Madrid

Javier de Miguel

I accompany personal and couples processes from an integrative perspective. I don't follow a single manual: I draw on IFS, Gestalt, EMDR and systemic thinking, adapting to what each process needs.

+10Years of integrative psychological training

Gestalt (EMTG) · Trauma · EMDR · IFS Certificate · Master's in Sexual & Couples Therapy (Euneiz, i.p.) · Psychology Degree (UOC, i.p.) · Previously: over a decade at Salesforce, Accenture and Celonis · Law & Business (ICADE)

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What sessions look like

Duration

75 minutes per session.

Frequency

Usually weekly or biweekly.

Format

In-person in Madrid or online.

Rate

€80 per session. See rates and packages.

Frequently asked questions

What if my partner doesn't want to come?

You can come first on your own. Sometimes one person needs more time. The process can start individually and bring your partner in when they're ready.

Do you take sides?

No. My role isn't to judge or decide who's right. I'm here to help you both understand each other better and find your own way forward.

What if the conclusion is to separate?

That's also a valid outcome. If separating is the healthiest path, I'll accompany you so it can be as conscious and respectful as possible.

How many sessions does it take?

It depends on each couple. Some find clarity in a few sessions; others need more time. We review it together regularly.

Ready to take the first step together?

30 free minutes · One of you can come first · Instant confirmation

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